tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-904463167504746128.post7626706812524638989..comments2011-02-19T04:06:50.544-08:00Comments on Lisa A. Hardwick: Grief: The importance of setting a beautiful and safe space for othersLisa A. Hardwickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05732542594840477443noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-904463167504746128.post-41960826568747106942011-02-19T04:06:50.544-08:002011-02-19T04:06:50.544-08:00What you said about grief not having stages really...What you said about grief not having stages really makes sense to me. Little Jade has gone through a really hard time the last 7 months, due to a boy, and she has just been crushed by the incident. I talk to her about it all the time, and I also listen, but I think I'm going tell her not to get upset because she's not "over" it yet. Each person heals when they heal. Thanks for this today!Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06962527389528912841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-904463167504746128.post-13235417952967421872011-01-26T14:08:56.020-08:002011-01-26T14:08:56.020-08:00Thank you so much Tammy - I didn't realize you...Thank you so much Tammy - I didn't realize you worked in Hospice...this must be the reason for your amazing and beautiful heart and spirit. I see your beauty Tammy....and it is magnificent!Lisa A. Hardwickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05732542594840477443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-904463167504746128.post-74353584073294838382011-01-26T13:49:38.649-08:002011-01-26T13:49:38.649-08:00Lisa you know I have worked in Hospice and taken m...Lisa you know I have worked in Hospice and taken many classes on Death and Dying, yet your article hit home more than anything I have learned in the past.<br />My favorite part of your article is, "Your deepest pain is your deepest pain". She was saying to me "Lisa, I am not going to allow you to compare your pain to mine - nor am I going to allow either of us to minimize your pain because it was different. Your deepest pain mattered as does mine." Also, the summary regarding sitting at the table and allowing your friend to talk about what she wants as long as she wants...it is a reminder that we all need to take to heart regarding friendship, grief and support and just "being.".ladysapphirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02432119857139926299noreply@blogger.com